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One of the most common complaints of women is failure to reach orgasm during coitus. This is not surprising. Coitus is one of the clumsiest ways to stimulate a woman. While coitus does provide an atmosphere that can be highly arousing, emotionally satisfying and erotic, the degree of stimulation to the woman's clitoral area is nothing compared to direct manipulation. Stimulation is limited to the traction of the clitoral hood by the thrusting penis (or dildo), and some pressure by the pelvic bone to the clitoral hood. Unless the woman has a very low threshold for clitoral stimulation, it is almost ludicrous to think that mere penile-vaginal intercourse is sufficient for an orgasm. Given the fact that most women will never orgasm through coitus alone, do not worry. Many techniques exist to facilitate a woman having an orgasm and having great sex! To increase stimulation to a woman's clitoral area during coitus, there are several option: 1) Increase the pressure from the male's pelvic bone, exerted onto the female's clitoral hood. In other words, do a little bit of grinding. Try moving up and down or side to side. During this period of experimentation, communication between the two of you will be extremely important (i.e. "too hard, too soft, ooh - I like it better this way, and yep - that sure feels good"). 2)While the woman is in the top position, assuming full control of all the movements, the man should lie flat on his back, pelvic tilted upward, stomach muscles tightened and back flat against the ground, and lie perfectly still. He then should take his right thumb (if he is right-handed) and place it approximately halfway between his bellybutton and penis. This way as his partner thrusts forward, her clitoris will rub against his finger. Many women find this extra stimulation pleasurable, especially because her thrusting motion controls the degree of stimulation that she will receive. 3)Maintaining the same positions, with woman on top, an on bottom, the woman should remain perfectly still. Please note, while she is on top, she should tense her inner thigh muscles and her vagina should fully engulf the man's penis. In this position, the man can easily apply direct manipulation/stimulation to her clitoris with his hand. To increase the stimulation, the woman (only after 5 minutes) could SLOWLY rotate her hips, and/or move her vagina up and down along the shaft of his penis. 4)The woman can masturbate. She can masturbate from any sexual position. Probably, the easiest thing to do in the beginning is to have the man and woman both lie still, so that the woman begins her masturbation, with his penis deep inside of her - without the distraction of movements. Then as her excitement begins to increase, they both can slowly resume their coitus movements. 5)There are MANY more ways to combine manual stimulation with intercourse. But the basic gist is this: whatever sexual position the two of you are in, be it doggie-style, side-by-side, missionary, or sitting, take a moment and stop mid-position. Then take turns stimulating the clitoral area. As the two of you acclimate to this additional form of stimulation, and have figured out how to minimize the awkwardness of whatever position the two of you happen to be in at the moment, increase the pelvic thrusting motions. 6)For the more adventurous and willing to be focused on pure female pleasure . . . The woman lies on the bottom, legs tightly held together. The man lies on top, legs spread out. Instead of being directly in line with her, the man should be at a slight diagonal. In other words, one foot should be closer to her, than his other foot. In addition, his head should be 6 inches to the right (or left, depending on which diagonal he is on) and his head should be about 1 foot above her head (so that her head reaches his shoulder). This position is designed to enhance female clitoral stimulation. It does so by maximizing the rubbing potential between the male pelvic bone and the female clitoris. | ||
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Most people are 'turned on' when their partner 'shaves their kitty'. However, the precise answer is Yes & No. Shaving your vulva will turn some people on and some people off. In your situation, the exact answer will depend upon your partner. One way to find out definitively is to a) Ask and b) Just do it. If you really want to excite your partner try . . . · One evening while out with your partner at a formal gathering (i.e. a work party, memorial day, group movie night or even a family barbecue, etc.) wear your partner's favorite skirt. Note, on this night, unlike any other night, you will be wearing nothing underneath the skirt. In addition that morning, you will have shaven off all of your vulva hair. Then, while the two of you are out, whisper in his ear that you have nothing on underneath. · One evening, when you normally would put on a sexy piece of sexy lingerie, wear a body suit instead. Again, that evening before putting on the body suit, shave. · One day, pretend that you have been 'lounging' around the house. Make sure you are wearing some beat up sweatpants and that your hair is a mess. However, unbeknownst to your partner, that morning after a long shower, you shaved your vulva hair. Thus, while in your 'grubby' clothes, entice into becoming sexual with you, and watch his surprise as he realizes that you had this all planned out. · The next time the two of you are showering together, ask your partner to shave you. Tell your partner that this would turn you on. (Note, if you a man, you can shave the hair around your penis. Many women, like men, prefer engaging in oral sex, without the risk of having pubic hair getting caught between their teeth.) | ||
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Standard sex games
Erotic Sex Game for the 'boring' partner There are two types of people the 'bored' and the 'boring'. This tip is for the 'bored' person. In fact, the person who is 'bored' should implement this game without the knowledge of the boring partner. How the game works. Before the bored partner gets home, the 'boring' partner, will have turned off the fuse box, (i.e. no hope for electricity), lit some incense and candles and dressed in a sexy outfit. A sexy outfit may mean wearing a butlers outfit, or some see-through lingerie. Then the boring partner should situate herself/himself in the middle of the living room / bedroom surrounded by large plush pillows. When the boring partner comes home, she/he will immediately try to turn on the lights. Of course, this will be unsuccessful. Then they will start to wander towards the dim lights and find you sprawled out half-naked on the pillows. The easy partner will immediately drop their pants and be ready to go. Others may require more work. In fact, initially, she/he may disclose to you that she/he has a lot of work to do, is simply not in the mood or even tell you that you look stupid. Regardless of what happens, you, the bored partner must maintain your cool seductive appearance. By this I mean that you should tell your partner that you may be acting silly, but you are here to please their every whim (imagine yourself playing a star role in a harem and you must win your partner over). You may then want to offer her/him a foot massage, or a glass of wine, or some grapes, which you could hand-feed. Lastly, for the really difficult partner you may want to brush-up on your knowledge about their favorite activity, which may entail the latest sports game, the stock market, or politics and romance her/him into your arms. Your mission is to seduce your partner by any tactic possible. Erotic Sex Game for the 'bored' partner For the 'bored' partner . . . ask your partner to let you plan an evening of entertainment. Arrive home from work early that day (before your partner gets home) and prepare a sexual meal. This may consist of linguine with clams, grapes, wine and cheese… (it all depends on your food tastes… and don't forget, if you can't cook, you can always order food and have it delivered). When your partner gets home, you will answer the door in a butler or maid’s outfit. The maid should be wearing just an apron, and the butler should be wearing just a tie. The only lights in the house should be some dimly lit candles. The table should be set with the fancy tablecloth, fine china and a bottle of champagne. You may want to have some snacks prepared in case your partner is hungry when she/he gets home. Upon your partner's arrival, invite her/him to take a bath. After undressing your partner, you should help her/him into the bath tub, where you will proceed to wash her/him. Not only should you wash their hair, which entails a scalp massage, but pay special attention to the genital area. After your partner is relaxed from the wash, serve your partner dinner. During dinner, pay special attention to whatever your partner wants to talk about. Let yourself be inquisitive to learn more about whatever your partner has to say. What is the meaning behind her/his words? After dinner, lead her/him to the bedroom and begin giving a head-to-toe massage. Let your hands wander. Erotic Sex game for the REALLY bored couple This sex game is designed for the REALLY bored couple. This game requires both partners to take an active role in sex. Set design: Two chairs facing each other. Props/people: Two fully clothed bored individuals. The game: Part one: The two people should begin sitting across from each other and fully clothed. Either person can begin by talking about how bored they are by having sex with each other. After she/he has completed her/his line, she/he will be required to take off an article of clothes. Eventually, both people will be stark naked. Part two: Slowly begin foreplay. After each touch, the giver must say "how boring" and then their first reaction. In response, the receiver must say, "I am bored" and then add their first reaction. This may sound like, "I am bored, but hey that feels good, please keep touching me" or it may sound like "I am bored, but I like the way your nipples feel on my lips". You could also add some variations be saying "who cares" or "this is silly." This game at first may make you feel uncomfortable. In fact, the first time I ever played it, I felt stupid, but sure enough, with time this game became fun. It removed the tension. Usually the first several times this game is played, there is no sex at the end, just lots of touching. That is fine. What is important to be learning is how to communicate with your partner, and how to laugh, smile and play with each other. Sex is about connection, and connections can happen on many different levels. They are all-important and contribute to having good sex. Erotic Sex Games for passive-aggressive couples - and for those who like angry sex Seduction is the name of the game. Passive partner plays the role of the master and the aggressive partner plays the role of the maid. The maid should be dressed in a skimpy black outfit, with a white apron. She should not be wearing any underwear. Whereas the master can wear whatever she wants. When the master arrives home after a long day of work or shopping, the maid will be busily cleaning the house. When the master arrives home and sits down in front of the TV, she may want to go to her, remove her shoes and replace them with some slippers. If the master so desires, the maid may want to give a foot massage. Then continue cleaning the areas near by. Each time she goes to lean down, she will wiggle her butt and show her ass - remember she is not wearing any underwear. The master may ask her what she is doing, to which she should reply 'oh nothing'. The master may angrily say that she looks silly and is being ridiculous, to which the maid must hang onto her hurt pride and respond by saying I like it this way and continue to wiggle her butt. By the third or fourth day, the master will start to become aroused. At this point, the maid must encourage aggressive sex. She may want to say to him 'do it to me' or 'take me' or 'harder'. Make it rougher. I like it when you talk dirty. As the master is increasingly aroused, she will start to be more responsive. By letting the negative energy out through sex it will 1) release the negative pent-up emotions 2) enable both partners to actually directly feel what has been transpiring between the two of them. Through sex/sexuality the passive partner will begin to get in touch with her/his anger and the bigger issue will begin to get resolved. Not to mention, this can lean to some fun and different kind of sex than the two of you had previously experienced. | ||||||||||||||||
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